Thanks to my dear friend Christy, we have some great seating options for our baby girl now. She is sitting up tall and secure in her bumbo playing a little peek-a-boo and being absolutely adorable!
Because there is nothing in this life that brings me more JOY than a baby in a onesie playing on the floor, I had to share this cuteness. This girl loves her some chains and we love her smiles!
Miss Kay brought us some yummy spaghetti for dinner on Tuesday. We are so grateful for all of those wonderful people who have feed us! Having our physical needs met as we adjust to having a new babe is such a tremendous blessing. We ate a good bunch of the delicious stuff, and then we decided to do a bit of sensory play with some of the left overs.
My big girls loved using the noodles to make art. I put it on trays for them with plastic knives, scissors, and other utensils and they can play for hours. As I was watching all the activity around my table, I was overcome with gratefulness to God for allowing me this overflowing life! Everyday I am so aware of the fact that I could have missed all of this, and I am so glad that I didn't as I experience blessing after blessing caring for these sweet, sweet babes.
When first bringing home my sweet Jillian, many told us that she had severe Reactive Attachment Disorder, that she would likely never attach to us, never feel safe and trust, and that life would be a huge challenge. Life for her is, at times, a challenge just as it is for all of us, but this girl's heart has been healed beyond my wildest dreams. Despite a very traumatic start, she is so attached to us, loves us as her family, and participates in family life like most other kids her age. She is very interested in her baby sister, and when I was feeding her dinner last night Jillian couldn't wait to help. Oh my heart, the wonders never cease to bring me to my knees with choruses of "God you are so so good! So many things have come against my Jillian in her life. As a baby, she wasn't nurtured, cared for, or fed, and yet she is able to care for, feed, and nurture this little one. It is so healing for her heart to have this new baby! Each time we add a sibling and I watch her learn to love them, I am in awe of all God has done.
Six years isn't long, yet to me it is nearly impossible to remember what it was like six years ago without this precious girl in our family. She has changed everything. She started all this crazy of following God to China for my babies. She gave the orphan a face and a name forever breaking my heart for the fatherless. I couldn't be more thankful to God for the amazing gift of this girl and all the ways that loving her has radically changed who I am today. I can't talk about her without being moved to tears because she is an absolute miracle. What a privilege to celebrate her on her sixth Gotcha Day with pumpkin pie while remembering God's faithfulness and all He has done!
We arrived home a bit over twenty four hours ago, and let me tell you it is glorious to be in the USA with our clan. Anna Mei and I missed our people so very much. Rounding the corner at the airport to see Daddy, the girls, Grandma, Uncle Anthony, and a few dear friends waiting always makes my heart soar. Ellie is doing very well as are the other girls who are thrilled to have gained this sibling. Jet lag continues to rear it's ugly head as it always, always effects me. I had a very productive night though while everyone was sleeping and I should be able to run on very little sleep until the adrenaline wears off. Hopefully, I get a few more projects and chores done before that happens. Thank you for your prayers as we traveled. Please keep them coming as we adjust to this wonderful, new, and blessed life.
If you all would be willing to present these requests to our Lord through prayer,we would be grateful as we begin our travel home at 530 pm Friday your time.We arrive home 27 hours later, after three flights, at 900 pm Saturday, April 22.Just typing this seems exhausting.
Here are some requests...
No bloody noses for Anna Mei.She had three big ones on the last fight.Her pjs looked like she had been through a war.
Rest for all of us.
No flight delays.
Patience for waiting through each flight and layover. Guangzhou, China to Beijing- Beijing to Detroit-Detroit to Cedar Rapids
Ease as we exit the bureaucracy here..security, suitcases, and paperwork.
Minimal trauma for our Ellie as we take her from all she has ever known.
We can't thank you enough for all you have done to support our Ellie's adoption.She is a treasure and we can't wait for you to meet her.
If anyone wants to welcome us home at the Cedar Rapids airport, we arrive at 900 pm Saturday, April 22 on a Delta flight from Detroit.We can't wait to be home!
We visited the Safari Park today and saw so many animals. Ellie actually reacted to some environmental noises today. She was terrified of the loud brakes on the train and the robotic T Rex. It was hot and we are all ready to go home, but we are making the best of it. We get Ellie's visa today, but we couldn't get a flight until first thing Saturday morning. We arrive in Cedar Rapids after 26 hours of travel. We can't wait to be home.
Tonight we went to dinner at the very same Cantonese restaurant that we visited with Anna Mei's adoption trip. I was hoping we would stumble on it in this neighborhood because I often tell Anna Mei about this dinner where she consumed all of my BBQ pork belly. The girl loved to eat! She still loves to eat so we ordered the pork belly and bread with some sort of sweet dipping sauce (which she and I ate most everyday when I got her). It was just as delicious as I remembered. Anna didn't love the pork this time around but it was so sweet to be there with her. Of course, Ellie Grace was so adorable and it was extra special to be making new memories with her there too.
I already cannot imagine life without this precious amazing girl. Tonight as I sat with her at dinner I was praising God for those of you who gave so that this babe could be mine. I am forever grateful for the gift of her that wouldn't be mine if it weren't for you! Thank you! Thank you friends!
After two weeks of doing laundry in the bathroom sink and hanging things to dry where there is no ventilation, I would kill for my washer and dryer. Yes, I used the bathrobe belts to make clotheslines. We adoptive mommas are a resourceful bunch. Longing for the comforts of home today, but also wishing I could keep the maid service and omelettes made to order each morning.
Ellie Grace had her consulate appointment today.There are no cameras allowed in, but trust me she rocked that red, white, and blue dress.She is now awaiting her visa and magic brown envelope which will allow her to enter the US.It can't come soon enough as we are anxious to head home.Only three more days here and we are reunited with our Daddy and sisters!
Tonight we enjoyed a cruise on the Pearl River. It was a wonderful time. Last trip, we discovered a more authentic boat that is a dragon ship. We were the only foreigners on the ship and it wasn't at all crowded which always makes it so love.
We are just waiting for Ellie's paperwork to pass through US immigration so that her visa will be issued. We are doing are best to keep busy , but we are ready to be home. Tomorrow is our consulate appointment and then we will have the visa in our hand on Thursday. It can't come soon enough. We enjoyed a park today and it passed the time well.
I am a Christ follower, wife of 20 years to my best friend, and a stay at home momma to five amazing daughters. I am currently waiting for one precious special needs treasure to come home from China. I am passionate about the orphan and special needs adoption. I love to teach God's word, am involved in youth ministry alongside my dh, and love,love, love cooking. Above all, I desire to serve God and surrender my life to His call.