The printer is humming in the background as I type. Man kind of like the way you forget what it feels like to gain 50 pounds when you're pregnant, I have forgotten what it was like to look over mounds of paperwork, checklists, and requirements as we complete our dossier. Can I just say YUCK! Really, I don't know how I ever did it the first time. Perhaps I was so ignorant that I didn't quite understand just how much I had to do. This time, I understand and it is so much! Still, I am beyond thrilled to make every check mark indicating that the paper required is complete because it gets me one step closer to my baby girl! We have another meeting with our local social worker this afternoon. We need five meetings to complete our home study requirements and this will be meeting number two. We are on our way friends! It usually takes about six months to finish a dossier and this time I swore that I would not put "deadlines" on each step as so much is out of my control. BUT, I just can't help myself. I'm shooting to have this first step done by the end of July so we can submit our I-800 to the NBC. Time will tell.
Right now I am holding in my hand the beginnings of our next child (the dreaded dossier checklist). The paper chase has begun. We have signed our contract and paid our first fee...So officially today the wait for our one more begins. We are heading back to China for a little girl (We need more hair bows..right?) and again adopting a little one with special needs. God knows the details of who she is and how she will come to us. Now, we wait in anticipation for Him to reveal His plan to us. Join us on this crazy journey as we know that God has a whole lot of miraculous laid out ahead of us!
Our daddy..
Well-he is the best, Godliest daddy in the world.
He loves our girls so much and is a picture of Christ to them.
Jillian is nuts about him.
She thinks he is the funniest man around.
She laughs hysterically if he just looks at her.
She can be found most days sitting on the couch with her daddy
or running with her daddy.
She loves her daddy for sure..
I am grateful to have this daddy to raise up these beautiful girls with me and can't wait to see him loving on our newest treasure. We are truly blessed to be able to call this guy Daddy.
Dear Jillian,
I wonder if there will ever be a time that I don't marvel at the opportunity that we have to get to be with you in this life. I wonder if I will ever begin to take for granted the fact that you have so much life in your smile and that you are able to enjoy the ordinary. I wonder if I will ever forget that your start was so far from ideal and loose sight of just how far you have come. I wonder, when you are grown, if I will remember the exuberance I felt having you sitting there next to me at the church birthday party Sunday knowing that you would have never been comfortable enough to be connected to us in this environment even two months ago. I wonder if I will begin to feel as thrilled as I am now every time you wear a hair bow, look me in the eye, or come to me when you are hurting. I hope that I don't loose it. I hope that God uses all of these feelings to continue to change my heart. I hope that He allows me to continue to see just how marvelous you are and how powerful He is to restore you. I can't believe how you are changing. I am enjoying you so much and you are taking on the world more and more. To God be the glory my baby girl for great things He has done in your heart. I love you sweet one!
Momma
She is getting motor modeling! She's getting it! This is huge for a million reasons..
1. She is connecting more to the world that she used to have to shut out in order to survive in.
2. She is seeing people as people that she can watch, learn from, and interact with.
3. This is the number one way that infants learn..by watching and modeling. Our sweet one missed that. She needs to get it and if she can't go back and pick up those things..it is going to be nearly impossible for her to learn high level thinking.
SO.....
How do I know that she is learning this important skill?
I am trying to model new signs for her to help her communicate more specifically for things that she is very motivated to get. One of those new signs is on. She loves our sensory motor play in the bathroom sink each morning. She loves sloshing, splashing, the bubbles, the toys, and especially the water. She plays with the sink full then pushes the drain and watches the water run down. Then she communicates to me that she wants more water. Up until recently, she has used her hand to push mine toward the faucet. I wanted her communication to be more specific so I wanted to make her sign for it. Water is a hard sign to make. I knew it wouldn't be one that she could do easily so I started to model on. I say in the morning as she is gesturing-on..you want the water on. Making the sign each time. I then use hand over hand to make her sign it. Well, she has been trying to do whatever sign I show her without my doing hand over hand! Motor modeling..it's coming!
THEN..
last night we were playing in the water in the backyard. (Yes she is naked in her diaper again. This truly is our life and I love it!) I have not modeled the water on routine with the water in the backyard. (I don't know why. I just haven't.) She finished in the sandbox and walked me over to the water bins and table. She took me by the hand to the hose and then she did it! I didn't give her any language prompts at all. In fact, it caught me completely off guard and I was ecstatic with joy when it happened. She picked up the hose handing it to me, looked me in the eye, and signed on. She used her language spontaneously to sign on in a situation that was appropriate! I wish I could have it on video, but it was just she and I in the backyard. I bet the neighbors heard me screaming. I was so excited!
I did set up the situation again and have daddy get the video camera so I could capture it.
Here she is discovering that I had dumped her water out. (Sneaky momma trying to make her communicate!) She goes to the table, presses her hands down, and doesn't feel the water. Look at her shake her little head no. SOOOO cute!
Then she comes to me to say on...water on..
Now she wants her bins filled up too...
Apparently, I'm going to need to learn some more sign language. It seems to this momma, who only dabbled in speech and language development in the classroom and as a mom to Emily who had speech and language delays, that her oral motor deficiencies are really keeping her from producing speech sounds consistently. I think she has language in her brain..she just can't seem to get it from her brain to the muscles in her mouth that produce the sounds. This is a big hurdle to overcome and probably the number one reason she isn't talking yet, but she wants to communicate. I am confident that even if her speech sounds are never intelligible, she will find some augmentative means to talk with us. Until then, studying sign so I can empower her even more.
This Momma got out the paint and the shaving cream yesterday.
You might be thinking..Why in the world would you do that?
Maybe I did it because we were going stir crazy after three days of rain and being stuck inside
or maybe because it is therapeutic for our girl...I'm not sure which.
Whatever the cause..she is stinkin' cute in her diaper with that cream all over her.
I had a couple of big girls (one being sissy) out there playing too. They liked it even more than Jillian did. Look at Jillian on the left striking a pose. This is her newest game with sissy. She makes the arm motions and sissy copies her. Her big sissy in under her control completely and Jillian insists on it!
More game poses..
Eventually, Jillian grew tired of the mess and moved on to other thrilling backyard fun. She played on her swing set and didn't let those creamy hands slow her down. She also played in the water table. She thought it would be more fun to hang upside down while putting her hands in the water. Gotta love my dare devil.
We are never going inside this summer. The backyard is the place to be for loads of fun! I love it out there just as much as the girls do so if you need us in the next three months..just come around through the gate and we'll be out back. Happy Thursday to you all!
I was sitting in a chair across the room from my treasure who was working with the OT and speech therapist that she sees in the school for therapy each week and then it happened...SHE DID IT!
The OT and speech therapist have been introducing pictures that match all the objects that they have available for play during the last two sessions. Generally for kiddos who are not able to speak, you use a picture exchange communication system to give them a voice and so that they understand communication is a back and forth exchange. This is what we are working up to and this is the first session that they were requiring her to give them a picture to get something. In this case, she was very interested in the OT spinning the sit and spin. Our little miss wanted her to keep spinning that thing around as fast as she could while she watched from a distance. Jillian began communicating by throwing the OT's hand up. (This is pretty typical for her to begin with..using gestures and we are thankful for that, but need her to be more specific.) The OT modeled her giving her the picture and then spun the sit and spin for her. Jillian caught on to the picture exchange idea very quickly because well...she is a very bright girl. :) They exchanged a few times and my Jillian was really digging that spinning sit and spin..
AND then it happened.
She looked at the picture on the floor and then straight into the OT's eyes AND SHE SIGNED MORE!!!!!!
She realized that she had "language" to communicate what she wanted and without any prompting from the therapists, all on her own as if a light bulb turned on, she signed more! I said with a gasp..that's more. She's signing more!!! It was all I could do not to bawl right there in that chair.
She has only been signing independently, without hand over hand, for a week. A week ago today, I realized she was signing eat as we walked to the park pavilion to eat and well since then she has taken off at home with those two signs. She is signing eat and more and trying to model others I show her.
And now after just a week..She did it with a new person in a completely new place without any prompting..SHE SIGNED MORE TO COMMUNICATE with someone other than me!!
I was still tearing up over it when we got home and I told Daddy who was waiting lunch on us. It is so incredible to be able to walk with this little girl in this life. Seriously, she is amazing and watching God restore her is sooo beyond any words that I could type. I am in awe of her. I am in awe of God who chose me to be her momma and has allowed me to stay home with her each day so that I could witness it.
Here are two videos that I shot of her signing. She is so darn cute.. Isn't she?
We ate breakfast at school this morning for the first time-Jillian and I. I took her to the Early Childhood Classroom at the public school so that she can begin to get used to being around other children and in a school environment. I worked it out with the wonderful teacher (my pastor's wife) and the school so that I could take her, stay with her, and eat in the classroom once a week.
It was hard not to cry today watching her sitting there at the breakfast table in the early childhood classroom at the public school. Jillian sat in the little chair at the miniature sized table next to me. She was comfortable. She was watching the children around her. She signed more. She signed eat. She played her elbows game trying to engage the others at the table though they had no idea what she was doing. She gave a boy a high five who came up to her to talk. She even fed herself a few bites.
As I sat there thinking over the last year and just how far she has come..it is hard for this momma not to cry. A year ago, she couldn't have even walked into that school building without screaming and melting down. She couldn't have even begun to sit at a table full of children. She couldn't have let a spoon in her mouth, eaten solid food, or even thought of feeding herself. How can it be that God has allowed me to witness such a miracle and even be a part of it happening?
Despite the fact that she has doubled her weight in the last year and grown by leaps and bounds..she is a tiny, little peanut compared to the others in the class. I just can't help, but think what could of happened to her if she hadn't come home to us. I thank God everyday she is here and that she is ours. I thank God even more that He is allowing her to make such huge strides and that He is allowing His light to shine through her.
Sunday, April 29, 2012
Full.
I am so full today.
Sunday has a way of doing that to me.
Especially Sundays when I get to have my teens here for lunch though it has nothing to do with eating and everything to do with the Lord.
God's love was everywhere I looked today....
It was carried in the arms of my teens as they hugged me.
It was written on the faces of the people who love on our family in our congregation.
I heard it in the words of those around me.
Do you know the fullness of Christ?
Do you have fellowship, true fellowship, with Him who made you?
Do you know who He meant for you to be?
How much He loves you?
I cried in Sunday School today because they are so many people around me, living their lives everyday, who would have to answer no to those questions.
I cried because I have been there.
I have known what it is like to be empty.
BUT then God called me to Himself.
I chose Him and because of that I am now so FULL!
I am so sad that there are so many still living that life of emptiness.
So many still searching for the secret to a full life.
I have the secret because I have Christ.
You can too.
Don't let another day go by in emptiness.
Turn to Him.
And be Full.
..and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:19
Jillian insisted on sitting on her sissy's lap Thursday night. I tell you I can hardly stand how precious is to see that little girl in the arms of her big sissy. My heart could just explode at the sight. We celebrated with a little cake and a number one candle because this is her first year with us. One year down and a lifetime to go. It seems like she has always been here and my word we love her as if she has been a part of us from the beginning.
This is one lucky momma to get to love on and raise up these two beauties.
(Hard to believe that we are lucky enough to be waiting on one more!)
Darling Kiddo had her school fine arts and academic tournament last week. This year she was old enough to compete in the speech portion of the competition. You have to know my sweet girl to understand how strange it seems that my darling kiddo would want to compete in the speech competition. She rarely says much. She is extremely quiet in most all social situations and doesn't really enjoy standing out, but she loves to win and she can memorize anything! So.. I pushed her a bit to sign up to participate in the speech portion. She was hesitant because she doesn't like to do anything that she isn't going to "win" and she wasn't feeling confident about sticking herself out there and performing BUT she was blessed to have a great coach at school who worked well with her, encouraged her, and guided her. She has worked hard in the last few months and when she performed her speech for me the first time, I couldn't believe how good it was. (I know that I am her mom and I hadn't seen many speeches before but it was really good.) It seems the judges agreed with me because my girl won state champion. Her score was the highest one in her category. She was very proud of her accomplishment and thought maybe she might do it again next year. We are proud of her and love that there is so much at her small school to encourage her to find and develop the many talents that God has given her. She also entered some photography pieces and received a blue for them. It was fun to be able to participate for the first time, but if I could I would stop these moments and savor them just a little longer because she is growing up way too fast I tell you. I just told her today that I wish it was summer so she could be home with us today. I miss her terribly when she is at school. She smiled (and rolled her eyes at the same time)! Gotta love a teenager.
Dear Jillian,
Today as I sat in the chair reading next to you after laying you down for your nap, you had so much to say to me. You laid there babbling your heart out. Occasionally you sat up and looked me straight in the eyes as if to say..Are you still listening? I'm listening sweet one. Listening to every sound. Responding to every gesture and praising God that you are beginning to find your voice. Some day when you are able to communicate with me, I will forget how very precious these first gestures and sounds were. I am going to forget the way I was praising God that you were "talking" instead of going to sleep. I am going to forget the way I fall desperatly to my knees to pray over you each night begging God to give you the ability to speak to me. For now, I remember. I remember my joy as you signed eat all on your own last night as we walked to the park pavillion to have dinner. I remember the intense joy as I listened to your babbling just now and I marvel at how you are breaking out of that prision that seems to have you trapped some days. I love you sweet one. I believe that God can give you the ability to speak and that some day I will hear you say I love you. Until then, I cling to every sound..each gesture..and hope..knowing each and every day that your life will bring God much glory!
A year ago today, my sweet baby was placed in my arms for the first time. She weighed a mere 15 pounds at 25 months, had bloody draining ears, yucky open sores on her head, and smelled less than sweet, but instantly I fell for her. This broken, created in the image of God little being was mine and I was estatic. To say that this year has been incredible is too simplistic and understated. We have fallen head over heels in love with this little girl who is our daughter. We have watched her begin to love us, learn to eat, walk, communicate, enjoy the company of others, and on and on and on.. I literally marvel at her everyday. I just simply can't believe that God would allow her to be ours. I can't believe how she has changed our hearts and how our lives are so much richer because she is in them. I shudder to think of what our lives would be without her and I am thankful for the millions of beautiful memories, smiles, and giggles that our family has had because she is here with us.
I am also taking time to be grateful today for the many of you who prayed her to us and provided financially to help us pay to bring her home. You are such a huge part of her story. Your support has impacted our lives greatly and without you..I couldn't even be writing this post. Adoption for us seemed impossible when we counted the cost. It would've been, but God brought you in to walk with us and because of that she is here-happy and healthy. Look at her sweet face, listen to her voice, see her in the arms of her loving daddy, and rest knowing that God used you to save this life. THANK YOU for all that you sacrificed to give to us so that she could come home!
My little lady loves her some contemporary worship...
Daddy was speaking at a Reach Out worship event across town last night. It was in a church that she had never been to before with lots of people she had never seen and she walked right in and led me to the front row. She loves her some worship! She sat on my lap for the first hour watching and listening while calling out with joy from time to time. Then, it was time for Daddy to do a little teaching from the Word and she sat right up at attention when she saw her daddy going up there. She reached her little hands out to him asking for him several times during his lesson, but was listening and watching his every move. For the last hour of worship, she stood-just like the picture- though she jumped from time to time..watching that drummer (who happens to be a "sheep" of ours) move those sticks and play. She was made for a mosh pit I tell ya! She really loved when the bongo drum was being played out in front. Nothing like singing praises to the Lord with this little treasure next to me. I tell you..it is simply too good to comprehend that she is here and she is ours. What a little miracle we have living in our midst that is for sure!
Almost three years ago, I felt that God was beginning to write a new chapter for my life. I love to go back and read my journal entries from that time. We were new to our congregation, getting used to full time ministry (my husband had just taken a church job), and counting our blessings as parenting an almost ten year old was pretty darn easy... I wrote lots of entries in my journal about how I felt that God was beginning to set up some great adventure for me. I mentioned (aka complained) to Him daily about how I felt there was some greater purpose for my life that He needed to reveal. I thought it might be writing or speaking because God was communicating clearer than ever with me through His word and I was loving it. I was hearing His voice so clearly and writing my own bible studies, speaking messages straight from Him to the ministry classes that I taught, and it seemed like this would be it..this was my new purpose-writing and speaking! My friend even bought me a website domain as I was sure this is where God was headed with me. I was growing tired of the day to day grind of teaching and while I still found great pleasure in my students the rest of it was growing well...dull. So I have countless entries about my heart's desire to do more for Him and to surrender my life fully to Him. I went on mission trips in those years to Guatemala and was moved by God's presence to provide financially for me. While He was speaking a lot to me then, I grew impatient at His insistence to keep me where I was. I hate to wait and He didn't seem to be opening any doors! Looking back now, I laugh at the thought that I had any clue what God was up to because He was about to close a chapter alright, but the new one that He would write has nothing to do with writing or speaking (at least not so far).
So it is now that the newest chapter of my life begins as I officially resigned my teaching job permanently recently and am officially a stay at home, homeschooling momma teaching a beautiful, yet completely unexpected, Chinese toddler. Who could have guessed? Being a stay at home momma was ALWAYS a dream of mine, but one that I never thought God would ever grant. I never believed in a hundred years that I could be staying home and I never imagined that I would home school. (Please don't take offense, but I used to think home schoolers were jumper wearing weirdos who were a little too protective.) So after thirteen years of teaching kiddos with autism and other unique, special characteristics, I packed up my room into over twenty boxes and hugged my colleagues saying good bye. (Now I am using all that experience to teach my beautiful daughter who just happens to have autism herself. Don't you just love how God works? That whole time I spent in anguish waiting for Him to begin writing a new chapter, He was using every experience I had in the classroom to bring me to a place where I could be Jillian's momma. In awe!)
My stuff isn't staying in boxes too long though. I have taken over the spare room upstairs and decided to move our school time in there. Our school room can be 100% devoted to our schooling supplies and set up just for that. The office space we are currently using for school is a bit too cramped so were moving on up..stairs that is! My baby girl continues to do really well working with momma. We have had days that she didn't feel warm and fuzzy about working..BUT I love teaching and teaching again feels so good that I wasn't even discouraged. I just keep plugging away, watch her learning, and plan even more for her to do! It is the best of both worlds for sure. SO stay tuned for pictures of the new classroom to come.
I saw her there at the park today though we didn't get to meet as I only saw her from a distance across the pond. A middle aged blond haired momma walking two Asian princesses with hair black as night attached to her hands. There they stood, one on each side of her, wearing matching green t-shirts and hair bows. Soon..that will be this momma. I will be there in the middle of two Asian treasures..my daughters. I will have one princess from China on each side complete with matching hair bows. I paused my mind for a moment as I sat there in the swing with my precious girl in my lap and I thanked God for this life He has given. I thanked Him that He continues to fulfill my heart's desire. I thanked Him that, at my age, He has given me this heart for the orphan and a desire to fill my quiver. I thanked Him that He continues to work the impossible into possibilities in this life. It's going to be a long wait this time..getting our next little girl home. I miss her so much already. I was up last night..wondering where she was and what she was doing. Wishing for just a glimpse of her face and that I could just for a moment sit next to her asleep and watch her breathe. Soon enough it will be. Soon I will be a momma again. Again-it's such a sweet word!
These are a few of my favorites things about schooling my baby at home...
1. We get to wear our pajamas until 10:00.
2. Making crafts with my baby girl is so fun!
I never let my self dream she would be doing this..We have come a long way baby!
3. That little pincer grasp picking up the googly eye is just too precious to miss.
4. I am the one cheering her on when she colors on a paper plate for the first time.
5. It is my voice she hears screaming with delight when she touches play dough.
6. It is my nose she covers with the play dough shapes she cuts out.
7. I never miss any of her accomplishments.
8. I get to see her growing and learning every second of the day.
9. I don't miss tearing up when she mimics my circular motion with her crayon for the first time
and I can take a picture.
10. I get to know her. Truly know her deeper because I get to be the one who is shepherding her heart everyday. If we need to take a little bonding time, we can swing at the park. If she is hungry, I can feed her. If she is crying, I am there to comfort her (or push her to finish). I can hug, kiss, and love her every minute of the day because we are always within arms reach and it is so, so good!
It has been a difficult morning with Jill. Her toddler will and determination to do as she pleases has been on display most of the morning. I will admit I was exhausted, but thanking God for all that He has taught me as I was teaching special kiddos for the last thirteen years about staying patient, remaining calm, and handling each situation with grace. (Not so sure the man who saw Jillian throwing herself down while screaming at the top of her lungs because we were leaving the pool thought I was handling it well..BUT I regress.)
This morning led me to my knees. I was a bit desperate to find some magical cure..some potion to make parenting this special treasure a bit easier. Then I came across the cost of a treatment program that I have been researching and wholeheartedly believe in and would love to enroll Jillian in..but the cost is way out of reach.
Which leads me to my conversation with Daddy.... Me-What if it could really fix her? (I hate to admit that I thought this, but I am being brutally honest about the condition of my heart after this morning.) Daddy says-She's alive right now and if she were still in that place she wouldn't be-that's all the fixing she needs. That money would save another orphan's life. Me-So much injustice and Daddy is so right. ( I hate to admit this..)
Which leads me to calling another agency that works with China's waiting child program. I talked with two different people at this agency who has been given amazing reviews from all the families that have worked with them and who is highly respected in the field. I discussed our situation. I shared our limitations in regards to China's program and they said those limitations would be no problem. It seems that many other families have been in our situation in the past and have adopted.
They said YES!!
They said YES!!!
The door seems to be open.
We can do this again!
We can do this again!
We are giddy and crazy at the prospect. We are gearing up for a paperwork battle and we are questioning how in the world we are going to be able to afford to go again..OH God laughs. He laughs at my doubts. He laughs at my unbelief in Him to provide. We are filling out paperwork as we speak and so I am not looking-just jumping off this cliff knowing God will be waiting to catch us at the bottom.
Would you pray for God to guide our steps? Would you pray for God to prepare our hearts and the heart of our newest, precious treasure that probably sits and waits already somewhere in China for God to bring us together? Would you pray for our amazing girls? Pray that God would enlarge their hearts to accept a new sibling.
Here We GO...AGAIN!!!!
Y'all we have been on our knees begging God to bring us to a place that would say yes to matching us with another little one. We are desperate to follow God and do this all again and honestly we have hit a lot of closed doors. Yet everyday we pray, we seek God's face, and as a couple we share our hearts with each other about how much adoption means to us and how very much we want to go again. It seems God has heard our hearts and is granting our petition to welcome more home in His name! To God be the Glory! Stay Tuned!
So here I am sitting in the silence (Jillian is asleep!) drinking the way too cold cup of hot tea that I made myself to drink purely for its caffeine content hours ago and I have to admit..this life is good. We have had a very busy week in terms of therapy and it seems that after six or so tough weeks- our baby girl is racing ahead again. I am encouraged. I am in awe. I am falling ever deeper in love with my daughter who is such a fighter and who continues to amaze me.
This morning it was feeding therapy and I think I finally figured out why she has had such angst at Easter Seals the last six weeks..it involves feeding and a vibrating spoon. She refused when we tried to use it in OT on February 17, but didn't make a scene so I didn't even think..BUT then I started seeing that she was refusing to eat pudding (a favorite food prior to being the substance carried to her mouth via the mentioned spoon). Maybe, just maybe this experience pushed her way out of her comfort zone and she was feeling very insecure there because of it.
Fast forward to today in feeding therapy and my sweet girl still refuses to eat anything in that building. I didn't feed her breakfast this morning before our 9:00 appointment hoping she would be able to eat, but though she was very hungry..she only allowed herself to open up for one bite. You could see the struggle in her little head..the battle of anxiety she was facing. She would sit in the chair and put my hand on the spoon, let it come to her lips, touch her lips, but not open up. She did not cry. She was extremely obedient about sitting. She laughed. She communicated with us by gesturing and was a bit vocal. She insisted that we give her high fives when she thought she had done well, but she would not open up. My sweet girl is so oral defensive..TRULY a huge hurdle because we can't even begin to teach her to chew if she won't let us in there. I am so thankful for our wonderful, patient therapist who hasn't been able to do much with feeding during our appointments the last few months, but who welcomes us patiently anyway.
Despite all this, Jillian is such an incredible little being. To think that she lived in that mass institution, without any room for individualization with all that she has to deal with in her little mind, makes this momma bawl. No wonder she shut down there. I was thinking that she is so complex and finally I feel like I am beginning to know her. How I love her. I deeply love her and am forever grateful to God who brought her to me.
I know that there are many more struggles ahead, but I also believe that God has ordained this journey for us and I am excited to see what my sweet girl will do. There is a plan for her that God has predestined and I feel blessed to be chosen by Him to be a part of it.
I am a Christ follower, wife of 20 years to my best friend, and a stay at home momma to five amazing daughters. I am currently waiting for one precious special needs treasure to come home from China. I am passionate about the orphan and special needs adoption. I love to teach God's word, am involved in youth ministry alongside my dh, and love,love, love cooking. Above all, I desire to serve God and surrender my life to His call.
